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We have a genuinely free basic membership level. Although many members like to upgrade, many others find dates and love on our site without paying. [Read More]

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This is the great time-saving way of starting your profile and logging into the site. If you give us the OK we can copy across your photo and a few basic details from your Facebook profile.
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This site is for genuine, nice people, just like you.
Love and Friends has a proud 17 year history as a site for genuine, nice people looking to meet others for friendship and/or romance with a view to a long term relationship.
  Genuine Profiles
  Fair Billing
  Relationship/Friendship Minded
  Genuine free membership option
  Fake Profiles
  Adult Content
  Selling Your Data
 Casual Encounters
If you are looking for adult dating this site is not for you. Genuine people in search of either Love or Friendship welcomed - as per our Terms and Conditions.

Registration Notes

We need your email address to relay member messages to you anonymously, send notices of events and give dating+site related advice. Don't worry - other members will not be able to see this and you won't get spam mail as a result of joining.

Make sure you enter a valid address as we send you login details to your email address.

Your password is case sensitive and can be up to 16 characters long. Letters, numbers, and underscores are OK but not spaces or other symbols.

If you have already registered using this Username... you need to go to the member login page - even if you have not fully completed your profile yet.

Your Username is your unique public alias on our site and is how other members will know you. It protects your confidentiality and you use it with your password to log in to our site. So choose a good one and make sure you remember it! For confidentiality, it's not a good idea to use your full name e.g. MaryBloggins

Numbers (0-9), lowercase characters (a-z), uppercase characters (A-Z), as well as underscore ( _ ) and hyphen ( - ) are all OK to use. All other characters can't be used. Unfortunately you can't use the ordinary space character - so you cannot be "il postino" but you can be "il_postino" or "il-postino".

It can between 3 and 16 characters long and should be easy to remember. For example members can be known as 'alice', 'highlander' or even 'bignose' if you wish. If your desired username is taken you can always try a variant - e.g. 'alice17' or 'highlander53'.